All this rejection’s got me so low

One of the most constant, inevitable things in the dating world is rejection. Yours. Theirs. Small. Big.
Sometimes the rejection is totally unexpected such as a great date never being followed up on.
Sometimes the rejection is slow and gradual. And you can see it coming but you don’t know when exactly they’ll choose to drop the ball on [...]

They fell in love on Myspace

I truly believe the internet can be a viable option for finding potential romantic partners. It really can be very difficult to meet any person worthy of dating especially in the typical meet market of bars and clubs and the internet provides an alternative playground. And I know internet matchmaking can be very successful. I personally [...]

A freak in the evening just like me

I was a celibate at a fetish ball!
And even more shocking, I wasn’t alone there. Out of all places - I met a fellow celibate young lady there. I was chatting with a man when I mentioned my celibacy to him when she overheard and excitedly interrupted. She proclaimed that she, too, is celibate and [...]

I don’t need you cause I’m neato

and I beat you cause I’m awesome!
My decision to not date - or even to be on the prowl for a prospective date! - has to be one of the best and most empowering plans I’ve ever made.
I seriously can’t believe how little desire I have to date currently.
 I met a man a few weeks [...]

Tell me sweet little lies

I have been having a string of bad luck in regards to dating for the past few months it seemed to me. I couldn’t understand what I was doing wrong.
I have dated a few men all of whom I felt potential with on some level and with whom I wanted to pursue something - casual [...]

I’m independent, smooth and confident. Always in demand.

My self confidence is evident to those around me. People frequently comment on how my confidence is refreshing and even inspiring. And yet, you will be at a loss if you look for a woman who has more nagging insecurities than I do. My last blog explored how my insecurities loom over me in such [...]